Life isn't always easy. One of the biggest lies we tell ourselves, when faced with the uncertainties and difficulties of life, is there must be something wrong with me.
Think about this:
Jesus said, "It rains on the just and the unjust alike." (Matthew 5:45)
King David wrote, "Many are the afflictions of the righteous."(Psalm 34:19)
Job declared, "Man's days are short and full of trouble." (Job 14:11)
Short of heaven, there is no such thing as a life without challenges and problems.
However, that doesn't mean we are supposed to give up on life and not pursue turnarounds and breakthroughs and accomplishments in our lives.
Like everyone else I have ever met, my story is one of much sorrow, pain, brokenness, setbacks, and struggle. While our challenges may be different, the fact is we all struggle.
I heard something years ago that has really helped me during times when it seems as though everything in my world has fallen apart. "Struggle is the sign you haven't yet been conquored." (Mike Murdock) This has been one of the biggest reasons I have never quit.
Just because you are struggling it doesn't mean you are finished. Failure and struggle are events not a person. You are not defeated and you are not a failure until you say you are.
If any one understood this truth, it was the Apostle Paul. When you read his story you find that it was one filled with much adversity, trouble and struggles. Yet he demonstrated the attitude that carried him through all these things, when he penned the words, "Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us." (Romans 8:37)
King David wrote, "Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning!"
A few days ago I was reflecting on my life and the thought went through my mind, "I am really a broken person." Followed by a laundry list of supporting facts. Such as:
Divorce
Financial setbacks
Broken and unfulfilled dreams
Health issues
A ministry on the shelf
Loss of friendships
The death of my son
To be honest, as I sat thinking about these things, I started having a pity party. I said things like, "No body cares about what I've been through, No one understands my pain, I am a failure, and so on." And then something happened in my mind. I began to remind myself of all the victories, breakthroughs, and accomplisments I have experienced. When I did my whole attitude changed. I went from pity to praise.
Sometimes, when everything is going wrong, and you feel as though you are finished, you have to do what David did before he faced Goliath. He recounted and remembered all of the times when he had faced seeminly impossible situations and God had given him the victory. This gave him the inspiration and courage to face the biggest challenge of his young life. When he did God showed himself strong on his behalf and the giant was defeated.
If we aren't careful we tend to focus so much on our trials that we forget all of our triumphs.
Yes you will have difficulties in life, but always remember, regardless of what you are facing, God always causes us to triumph! (2 Corinthians 2:14)
Just because you are going through difficult times it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. It simply means that you are alive.
So what do you do when you are facing difficulties? You keep on keeping on. You keep on believing. You keep on fighting. You refuse to quit and give up.
I really believe that God can and wants to your turn your pain into power for purpose.
You can take what you've been through, the lessons you've learned, and how you have survived and overcame them, and use it as a message of hope and encouragement to others faced with seemingly impossible situations. Like the old preacher said, "God will turn your tests into testimonies, and your messes into messages!
My wife taught me something several years ago that I have never forgotten. She said that everything I had been through was nothing more than a classroom. She taught me how to reframe my setbacks and see them from a new perspective. I learned how to draw out the lessons I had learned, because of the difficulties I had faced in life, and apply them to my life and share them with others facing similar things.
We are able to comfort, encourage, and help others going through difficulties because we ourselves have been comforted, encouraged, and helped when facing the difficulties of life.
Most people are hiding behind a mask. Apprearing to others as though they have it all together. Yet on the inside they are frustrated, tormented, and discouraged. Their fear of rejection and not being accepted by others has led them to a life of faking it instead of being authentic.
I have learned, faking it doesn't work, at least not long-term. But, when you learn to let your guard down, get real with yourself, and stop trying to be perfect, you find the faith, power, and wisdom, needed to not just survive the struggles of life but to thrive in the midst of them.
Here are 10 things I've learned about turning your pain into power for purpose:
1. I am not the only one that has gone through or is going through the difficulties I am going through. (1 Corinthians 10:13)
2. Others have faced similar circumstances, and by faith, have overcome them, so I can as well. (Read Hebrews 11)
3. My attitude and mindset when facing painful circumstances determines my outcome. (Proverbs 23:7,Mark 9:23)
4. What I make happen for others, by helping them in their times of struggle, God will make happen for me. (Ephesians 6:8)
5. This too shall pass, I will get through this. (Psalm 30:5)
6. God is for me not against me. (Romans 8:31)
7. God bring others into my life in my darkest moments to assist or minister to me.
8. If I learn the lessons struggle teaches me I can teach those lessons to others and either help them avoid the same struggles or how to overcome them. (2 Corinthians 1:3,4)
9. My pain has become power for fulfilling mu life purpose as I have shared my story and the lessons I have learned with others facing similar situations as I faced.
10. God always turns every situation into triumph if I keep my faith strong and my attitude right. (2 Corinthians 2:14)
Questions for today: What are you doing today to turn your pain into power for purpose? or What personal pain have your turned into power for purpose? Comment below!
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