Ask For Help

You have probably realized that you can’t do everything. Talents, time, skills, and finances limit what you can and cannot do. There are times you have to rely on the expertise of others to accomplish what you need to accomplish.

Sometimes you are simply stumped by a problem that you can’t solve. Fortunately, there is always someone that can help us if we need it. It is amazing who and how people will help you if you simply ask them.

I have met very few people who wouldn’t help me when I asked for their assistance. Most were more than happy to help me. It is a satisfying feeling when someone trusts you, believes in your abilities and asks you to help them.

The next time you are faced with a difficult task or assignment, find a qualified person that could help you, and ask them to!

Bloom Where You Are Planted

Some people live lives of frustration because they are never where they want to be. They aren’t content in their current place or position. These people have bought into the idea that “the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.”

The fact of the matter is, it isn’t. The same problems you have now are one’s you’ll have if you go somewhere else. There’s no such thing as a perfect house, job, marriage, business, or church. Though some may be better than others, they all have their own shortcomings.

Seek to make the most of where you are now. Do your part to improve the overall state of being where you are. Look for the good things. Accentuate the positive. Remember what you see depends on what you look for!

Be who you were made to be, where you are. Do what you were sent to do where you are now. Rather than to allow yourself to be frustrated where you are in life determine to learn and grow. In other words make the decision to “Bloom where you are planted.

Success In Increments


The old adage, “inch by inch anything is a cinch,” still rings true today. As much as we dislike it most success comes in small pieces. Seldom do we experience “overnight success.” Most get rich quick schemes are nothing more than scams designed by con artists to get our money.

These schemes would never be successful if people weren’t always trying to achieve great success instantly. Our society is caught up with instant gratification. If we can’t have something right now, we don’t want it. This desire for instant gratification is one of the major causes of debt in our world today.

There actually is no such thing as an overnight success. People who have head this label attached to them many times worked for years developing their skills and talents.

Tom Lehman who has become perhaps one of the top golfers in the world is one such person. Although his rise to stardom on the PGA tour seems to have come fast, Tom actually struggled for years on the seemingly endless trail of mini-tour events worldwide. His success today is the result of years of lessons, practice, and patience.

One-man who was called and overnight success said, “I might be and overnight success, but it sure was the longest night I’ve ever known!”

Perhaps you have heard it said that, “the longest journey begins with a single step.” Regardless of what you are desiring to accomplish, if you don’t get started you’ll never get where you’re going.

Sam Walton, the founder of Wal-Mart, started with one store in Batesville Arkansas. After years of artwork and his refusal to adhere to the advice of his detractors, he developed a network of stores that cover the majority of the United States. His vision, hard work, and patience, eventually caused them to become the wealthiest man in America. This success came incrementally, one store at a time.

The children of Israel were told that they were to drive out the inhabitants of the promises land little by little, lest it be overrun with wild beasts. In God’s scheme of things victory is experiences a little at a time. Jesus said in John 8:32 “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” Notice he didn’t say it would make you free, which would denote an instant and complete freedom. Rather He said “it will make you free,” which denotes an ongoing, day by day freedom. In other words freedom comes in increments.

The following principles will help to guide you to success over the long haul:

1. Clear-cut vision
Know exactly where you’re going and what you intend to accomplish. Write it down. Having a written vision helps to motivate you and keep you on track. Your vision in life is what gives you purpose. Without purpose you just meander through life never really accomplishing anything more than taking up space.

2. Have a plan.
No coach would take his team out to play game without a game plan. No contractor would think about building a skyscraper without a set of blueprints. You see a step-by-step plan is essential to getting anything done. Some people think others that are successful are so because they are lucky. Denis Waitly defines luck as “Laboring Under Correct Knowledge.”

3. Get busy.
Once you have written your vision and developed a plan for attaining it, then you have to get busy. As the great NIKE ad says “Just Do It.” A vision and a plan are important, but they are worthless if you don’t put them into action. A lot of people are great dreamers but they are lousy doer’s.

4. Stay focused
To focus means to concentrate on the task at hand. It is to concentrate on the desired result. As a teenager I had the opportunity to work on a farm one summer with my grandmother and her husband. One day I helped plow the fields. I quickly learned that if you were going to plow a straight line you had to pick and object on the horizon and focus on it until you reached it. Don’t allow yourself to become distracted by other things. One major reason why people with good intentions never follow through is because they allow themselves to become distracted.

5. Practice patience.
Patience s not putting up with something but rather it is constancy. It is the ability to stay with a project until it is finished. It is not quitting in spite of the obstacles or adversity. The primary reason people quit is because they are not seeing the results they want to see. Remember success is incremental, it doesn’t happen overnight.

Toughing it out


Robert Schuller wrote, “tough times never last, but tough people do!” Life isn’t always easy. At times it can be extremely difficulty.
Health problems, financial problems, family problems, relationship problems, marriage problems, can all present incredible challenges. They challenge our resolve, our attitudes, and our future.

Jesus wrote, “In this world you shall have tribulation.” Job said, “Mans days are short and full of trouble.” While it is true that life can be tough and full of difficulties and trouble, it is also true that things don’t have to stay that way. There is always a way out of the difficulties you face in life. Listen to what David said, “many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.”

Just because trouble comes doe’s not mean that we have to allow ourselves to be destroyed by them. While the Bible is full of passages that warn of trouble it is also full of admonitions for overcoming them.

The following principles will help you victoriously overcome life’s difficulties.

Have faith.
Believe that things can and will change. Expect God to do what He promises in His word. Believe in healing, deliverance, provision and protection.

Renew your mind.
Change the way you think. Get rid of negative thinking. Refuse to think thoughts of doubt, unbelief, and destruction. Fill your mind with the promises of God’s word.

Watch your mouth.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue. What you speak in life is what you can expect to have. This is a spiritual principle that cannot be nullified. Paul wrote, “confession is made unto salvation.” Begin to speak what you intend to see, not what mow is. It is a true statement confession leads to possession.

Positive actions.
Choose to do your part to change the way things are. Become a doer not just a hearer of the word of God. The prophet Jeremiah said, “if you are willing and obedient you shall eat the good of the land.”

Surround yourself with winners.
Your associations are important to hanging tough. Don’t run with gloom and doom thinkers. The last thing you need when facing tough times is to be around people that are down and out. By running with winners, in tough times, they will encourage you to keep on keeping on.

See the end result.
In order to hang tough in trying times, you must be able by faith to see beyond what now is to what can be. Faith sees beyond the present circumstances.

Don’t stop.
Quit should be a word that you remove from your vocabulary. “Quitters never win and winners never quit.” The race isn’t to the first off the line, or even to the fastest runner, it is to the one who endures to the end.

Overcoming Adversity


No one is immune to bad times. We all go through them. Winners know how to bounce back for them. In this lesson we will seek to learn the qualities needed to over come adversity.

The Bible says we will face difficult times.
Jesus said "in this world you shall have tribulations, but the of good cheer, I have over come the world." (John 16: 33) the David said, "many are the affliction of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of the all." (Saw 34: 19) notice that in both Scriptures it is the assurance that although we will encounter hard times, God promises to deliver us from them.

Pray. Ask God for assistance.
Enlist his ability on your behalf to overcome the adversity you’re facing. Ask God to lead you to the right people, to give you the right idea or information you need to bounce back. Jesus said "what things soever you desire when you pray, believe that you receive than you shall have them." (Mark 11:24)

Believe in your ability to bounce back.
You have what it takes to bounce back. It is amazing how much inner you have. The of apostle Paul said, "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me." (Philippians 4:13)

Make the plan for recovery.
The key to winning over any of life’s difficulties, is to strategize for victory. Determine what needs to be done and now to do. Having a workable plan is half the battle.

Make the most of the situation you are in.
He added in the adversity is an opportunity to do something different. When given a lemon, make lemonade. The apostle Paul said, "all things work together for good." (Romans 8)

Enlist the assistance of others.
Allow friends and family to help you during difficult times. No man is an island. We all need each other. God's intention is for us to help and be helped by others.

Persist until conquer your adversity.
Don't give up, or stop short of total victory. Be totally committed to victory. Always remember that victory comes to those who don't quit.
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